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I lost Ralph Friday. It was sudden and unexpected. I came home from work, started the usual routine of grabbing my mail and saying hello to the cats – when I see Ralph wasn’t there to greet me. Stepping into the living room, I see him laying near the bottom of the [...]

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My little Louie, Aloysius, lost his battle with cancer Saturday.  It’s never easy to let them go.  Louie held on longer than I expected, honestly.  When he was diagnosed with oral cancer in February, the oncologist gave him three to six months with hospice care.  Neither I, nor my regular vet, felt he had that [...]

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I miss

I miss waking up each morning and looking over to see Monet sitting on my chest near the window.
I miss Lovey throwing her front legs around my neck so we could “dance” together.
I miss Molly’s little face peeking up over the kitchen counter.
I miss Elsinore licking the white vase.
I miss Meow Meow gumming my arm [...]

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Okay

How am I doing?
I’ve been asked the question more times than I can count over the past week. Sometimes by people just making small talk or as a casual greeting, other times by those that know I’ve suffered the loss of two cats in four days. To the latter, I sometimes reply to the effect [...]

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Heart and Soul

I’d written recently of my loss of Afer E Granny, my “heart”.
When it rains, it pours – I lost Omaha, my “soul”, last night.  Perhaps they were meant to make this journey together.  Perhaps the powers-that-be just felt as long as I was grieving, best dump everything on me at once.  I don’t know, but [...]

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Completion

I love all my cats, past and present. I have to admit, though, two of them are a bit special to me. I don’t love them any more than the others, but there’s just this particular feeling about those two. I suspect it’s because I didn’t adopt these two cats because they needed me (unlike [...]

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